I remember hating networking as a student. I wasn’t sure how to do it, I felt awkward, and I struggled with feeling inauthentic. Now I’ve realized being yourself is the best way to network. You’ll connect with people that align with your core values and beliefs this way. Knowing this, though, doesn’t make networking any less intimidating. Here are some key tips to remember:
You’re Networking Already
In every class you’ve taken, every club you’ve joined, and any job or internship you’ve done, you have been networking every step of the way. It doesn’t feel like it, but it’s true. Building connections that can aid you in your job search can come from anywhere. Your peers will one day be your strongest networking connections.
I read a book earlier this year by Dr. Meg Jay titled The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter–And How to Make the Most of Them Now. Within the first section of the book, she speaks on the importance of weak connections. She writes, “The strength of weak ties is the science of how information spreads. It is about how people who do deserve chances or opportunities let other people help them find those chances or opportunities” (pg. 26).
Even if you’re not super close with a particular person, it never hurts to reach out and ask for advice. You’ll be surprised how many people WANT to offer you support; you just have to take the first step in forming the connection to lean on later.
You’re in the Driver's Seat
You are more in control of the interaction than you think. If you reframe your mentality on networking, it looks like a friendly conversation taking place from the outside. You don’t have to recite your resume or even be interested in working for the organization they work for. Networking is about connecting with others – it’s not a formal interview.
One of my favorite tips is making sure you find things you have in common with others. See the following conversation starters below:
- "Are you alumni? How much has Athens changed since you were a student?”
- "Where is your company based? What is it like living in that city?”
- "Are you also a Bulldog fan? What do you think about our season so far?”
We’ve All Been In Your Shoes
Networking for the first time is intimidating to everyone. Challenging yourself to step outside of your comfort zone is not an easy feat. Networking is a skill that takes practice, and no one is judging you. The more you practice and put yourself out there, the easier the conversations will flow. You have to start somewhere, and we all remember experiencing the same feelings you’re having.
To put these skills into practice, keep an eye out for upcoming networking events. I also highly recommend getting involved in the UGA Mentor Program if you are not already. It’s a convenient way to network with alumni in various stages of life and on a wide array of topics.
Jay, Meg. The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter and How to Make the Most of Them Now. 1st ed., Twelve, 2021.